1 ๐ด๐ต๐ฆ๐ญ๐ญ๐ข๐ณ (& ๐ด๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ด๐ช๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ) ๐ธ๐ข๐บ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ช๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ช๐ง๐บ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ณ๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ญ๐ช๐ง๐ฆ?โฃ
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๐๐๐ค๐ ๐ ๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ซ๐ญ! ๐ค โฃ
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Seriously... sit down, take a piece of paper and write out what you want to LEAVE BEHIND in the new year (habits that donโt serve you, toxic relationships, limiting beliefs about your business etc.) & want you want to KEEP (activities that make you happy, people you want to love more on, mindsets thatโll level you up etc.) โ๏ธ โฃ
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๐๐ฉ๐บ ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฌ??? ๐ง โฃ
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...because your first (& easiest) excuse to transformation is that โI just donโt know whatโs holding me back!โ ๐คท๐ปโโ๏ธ โฃ
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โ by doing this youโre actively IDENTIFYING what is and isnโt working (aka: removing the ski boots) โ & be honest! ๐ฟ โฃ
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From then on you can journal, shift your daily routine, talk to yourself, a trusted friend or therapist about the above... & make change HAPPEN ๐ญ
Did you know that your money mindset is cemented by age 7?! ๐ตโฃ
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Yup. 7 years old. โฃ
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If money was viewed as a taboo topic and you were encouraged not to talk about it, that has probably carried over to your adult life.๐ฅดโฃ
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But donโt worry, weโre here to help! โฃ
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The only way to turn your relationship with money around is to confront your beliefs around it, and completely change them. โฃ
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Something we like to utilize in order to do this are MONEY MANTRAS (swipe for some examples!)โฃ
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We know what youโre thinking. OK OK mantras are great and all but HOW is that going to help my financial situation?? โฃ
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Here is the exact step by step process we use: โฃ
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โจ Repeat the money mantra that resonates with you the most out loud each morning (but ONLY if youโre in a good mood... it doesnโt work if youโre just feeling grumpy that AM)โฃโฃ
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โจ Follow up with gratitude / visualization practice (really make sure youโre focused on the FEELING of having that cash flow NOW) โฃโฃ
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โจ Align your actions with your intention โ...
Iโve attracted: paying off $25,000 of debt in 5 months, my current (v sexy) boyfriend & even a business partner whoโs now fully fulltime with GG (hiiiiย Megan๐๐ผ) through my manifestation practices โ soooo...
Donโt you dareeee tell me this sh*t donโt work because it does!! ๐ค
Remember: ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ #๐๐ฏ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฏ๐ช๐ง๐ฆ๐ด๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ด๐ช๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ!!! ๐๐ถ๐ต ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ข๐ฏโ๐ต ๐ฅ๐ฐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต *๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ญ๐บ* ๐ช๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ฏโ๐ต ๐จ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ โจ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ โจ โฃ
Why?
Letโs break it down with a real world scenario:
Pretend youโre finally getting to sit down at your favorite downtown restaurant โ ugh, what a treat! ๐
Now when the waiter comes up to ask for your order - try requesting โfoodโ... yup, just. FOOD โ & see what you get. It could be anything from a broccoli cheddar soup to steak frites โ thereโs no clarity for what the result is ACTUALLY gonna be ๐คท๐ปโโ๏ธ
Now ask for aย #glutenfreeย ๐ง with ๐compote, whipped cream & syrup on the side.
See ๐๐ผ what ๐๐ผ you ๐๐ผ get?
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The ๐ง story is a simple example โ but it perfectly exemplifies the real difference bet...
Whether itโs posting about your sale on Insta, pitching your services in the DMโs to a dreamyyy new ideal client, applying to join a killer local market or just asking a hottie out to dinner โ you LITERALLY can only go UP!!! ๐
โFailureโ is a human construct... ๐ง
Youโll either make a sale, sign a client, pitch your tent, go on a hot n spicy date ๐๐ป โ ORRRR youโll be exactly where you are right now - without those things! ๐คฏ๐คฏ๐คฏ
& 99% of the time the fear of judgment / rejection / denial that youโre soooo terrified of feeling by โputting yourself out thereโ โ youโve just pigeon holed yourself into by not even asking ๐ณ (ironic, isnโt it?)
...sooo stop acting like โfailureโ is the worst thing that can happen โ when we all know that regret is 1000x sh*ttier - yeah? *snaps* ๐๐ผ
Since day โ๏ธโ we have had this HUGE vision for creating a space online where women could connect authentically, empower each other genuinely, and build confidence in their own truths ๐
A space where that would add VALUE to your Insta feed.
Posts that make you feel BETTER about yourself instead of worse.
Stories that inspire, make you LOL (for real), and resonate with whatโs ACTUALLY going on in your life.
The past few months, weโve been scheming, working hard, and manifesting withย @girlsguide.coย โ and weโre BEYOND EXCITED to share whatโs in store as we enter a new season in life and our biz โ๏ธ
Make sure you follow along for allllllllllll the Insta goodness โ because you DESERVE TO FEEL GOOD each and every day ๐
REASON WHY BUSINESSES FLOP... fear of FAILURE ๐คฆ๐ปโโ๏ธย
SCARCITY ๐๐ผ FRICKINโ ๐๐ผ MINDSET ๐๐ผ will kill more female entrepreneurs dreams than anything else...
Why? ๐คจ
...because youโre giving up before you even get STARTED!!! ๐ญ *cue tears* โ Iโve seen it happen time n time again (not to our clients but I be stalking lotssss of Instaโs ๐)
We said itย before & weโll SAY IT AGAIN for the folx in the back:
โFailureโ is a human construct!!! โ ๏ธ
It quite literally DOES NOT EXIST.
Youโll either make a sale from your stories, sign the perfect client in the DMโs, meet your business bestie at the networking zoom call ORRRR youโll be exactly where you are IN THIS MOMENT - without them! ๐ฏ
You can trulyyyy only go up ๐